The In-Between / Work-In-Progress

It’s a mix of cra-cra at our casa at right now, and is literally driving me nuts.

Exhibit numero uno: Re-grouting our main shower. The original grout was very cracked (and missing in some places) and was begging for some TLC. So while that is underway, I’m trying to embrace it the best I can, but having to shower in our spare bathroom… means I zombie walk down two flights of stares upon waking up. This morning I totally tripped over some old trim while making my way to the shower –  I was this close to lodging a nail in my foot.

Exhibit numero dos: Our family room, aka Drew’s chill space, is torn up because we are adding board and batten to the lower portion of the walls. And when I say “we” I mean my dad, but I did help paint the majority of those boards, I have the calluses on my hands to prove it. So even Drew’s precious Xbox is unplugged and has a barney blanket over it (gotta protect those precious electronics)! That also means I have to share my chill space (the living room) with him. Please make fun of me for this, but I even have him rotate around our couch, in fear of massive saggy butt marks in the fabric and on the cushions. Hey, I’m protective of my space, especially because everything in that room is brand spankin’ new.

And here are the photos to prove it, though not sure why anyone wants to look at the mess we call home… so if you don’t want to see them, just scroll down 🙂

In addition to projects that we’re in-between on, is some decorating things that I need to finish up. For instance, I had Drew hang a few things like this mailbox, photo frame, and to make & mount a mason jar to the wall for flowers. So literally the frame is hung without a photo in it yet. And I have yet to make this mason jar contraption.

Also, these awesome bookshelves I got for Christmas from my parents are now assembled in our living room, however I realized I have to now accessorize them with things that match throughout the room. I did some digging and didn’t come up with much from existing decor. My goal is to hit up goodwill looking for things I can spraypaint to match the color scheme and tie in the yellows and whites. But we all know you can’t spraypaint outside in Wisconsin in the winter, so that will probably have to wait 🙁

And what about this trim painting that I started doing, say in October? Yea I have zero motivation for that now, but if you take a look back at my 2013 goals, it’s on there. So I’ve got to tackle that at some point! (And I realize I need to update our “before & in-progress” photos).

The goal is to have a lot of our projects wrapped up by February 1st (minus the major projects we haven’t started, like the kitchen) because we’ll be hosting a life group every other week. So I’m using that as motivation, I’m totally using that as a way to keep the house clean too. This shall be fun….

Goals for 2013

The first of every year is a good time to reflect on what’s working for you and what’s not… what you had hoped to do in the past 365 days and what you forgotten about. I’m not one for making resolutions, but instead setting some realistic goals. So before I crank out the list for this year, let’s see how we came out in 2012…

TOGETHER GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Pay off Vanessa’s School Loansliterally finished this on the 31st
2. Take a vacationcruise!
3. Save up for a down payment on a house! – check and we bought one, so we should get bonus points
4. Get better at doing our laundry and keeping our house cleanso so on this, could use improvement still
5. Go rock climbing together – fail 🙁
6. Start to pay off Drew’s loans – Luckily we don’t have to start paying these until 1/8/13

DREW’S GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Graduate MSOE
2. Start at Milwaukee Tool
3. RelaxTook the past 11 days off, I’d say he’s relaxed

VANESSA’S GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Read a book in entiretyHunger Games 1 & 2
2. Blog more to document our livesSee for yourself
3. Sew something
4. Do less freelance

Now for 2013
TOGETHER:
1. Save up 3-6 months salary for our emergency fund
2. Pay off 1/3 of Drew’s school loans
3. Invite people over more to hang out as couples
4. Get a laundry schedule together – and fold after washing, not 2 weeks later
5. Go on a mini-vacation somewhere close

DREW:
1. Start Grad school in the Fall
2. Go to China for work
3. Hang out with my brother-in-laws more

VANESSA:
1. Enter a Minted design contest
2. Get my design etsy shop up and running
3. Get my car washed more
4. Finish updating my freelance website in hopes to do more this year
5.  Sew something
6. Draw/sketch more
7. Visit my sisters in MN and IL

HOUSE:
1. Finish painting trim white throughout house
2. Start and finish kitchen remodel
3. Update upstairs bathroom

Fingers crossed we can stick to these goals!

Christmas Chalkboard

In the age of pinterest, you don’t have an excuse to not try to decorate every nick and cranny with Christmas decor. And with having a chalkboard wall, I figured I’d at least try to do something festive related – especially since we are having people over at our home this Christmas.

I borrowed the idea of this chalkboard tree, but then the chalkboard lights were my own idea. I had been waiting for the perfect thing to add up to the top part of the wall and the post and totally joked to Drew that look at the lights I just hung in our kitchen.

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Christmas Traditions 2012

It’s beginning to look at lot like Christmas! Well kinda. Due to the fact that we’re tearing up each room on a regular basis to finish projects, Christmas hasn’t really hit us yet. I’ve literally decorated and re-fluffed the trees three separate times because we had to move them and then half the ornaments fall off. I seriously thought about not even bothering to decorate this year with all the chaos, but I’m glad we’re finally getting into the Christmas spirit.

A few weekends ago, I convinced Drew (aka Scrooge when it comes to Christmas decor) to hang Christmas lights outside. The conditions were, 1. I had to help, 2. Get free lights and clips from my parents, and 3. It had to be nice outside – a lot to ask for in December. But thanks to my parents and the random 55 degree day, his wishes came true and we hung them up on the front of our house. It makes me soo excited driving up to our house and seeing it all lite up – so pretty!

The weekend before, I took it upon myself to get the trees up (yes, three of them), add a little decor on the mantle, and a wreath on our door. PS have you seen Target’s Christmas home decor section – I basically wanted it all, but I had self-control and only got the two sweater Christmas tree cones… and a ceramic reindeer….and a snowball/jingle bell wreath… and 4 sweater stars to hang on our fireplace, sparkly pillows (I plan to use those year-round)…. oh and a “W” ornament to add to the tree. PS only available in stores.To finish out our two Christmas themed weekends, we made our traditional cookies spelling out “Merry Christmas 2012” – along with those hershey-kiss-pretzel-m&m things. See our Christmas baking day for 2010 and 2011. Yum! We tried out icing the cookies this year versus frosting them – we thought it would look nicer, however we should have practiced all year. Never the less, they taste the same! PS listening to Michael Buble’s Christmas album will really get you into the Christmas spirit. I always forget his voice. is. soo. good.

Christmas wouldn’t be complete without a cat-reindeer and a baby-niece-elf too. Merry Christmas! What Christmas traditions do you and your family have?

Remembering Miriam

When we were first house hunting, a sweet old lady and friend had passed away – though it was her time, she was well over 90 years old, she was the most precious little lady and is very much missed by many. Here is a photo of her from our wedding in 2010.

wedding photo candid mariamShortly after she passed, my mom was contacted by her relatives that they had a bunch of her furniture they were selling. Knowing we’d need much more furniture to fill our future house, I decided it would be a great opportunity to remember her and to get some really great mid-century modern furniture. It was also a steal of a deal, only about $300ish for two dressers, a hutch, a credenza, two night stands, a headboard and bed frame, and dining room table with six chairs. Some of it was in great condition, some had seen better days.

mid century modern decorated hutchCurrently, the hutch is in our kitchen which is holding a lot of extra dishes and kitchen appliances and showcases some colorful pieces. This one is in pretty good shape, a few dings, but I could probably easily get them out without having to start from scratch. It also has a laminate piece that wouldn’t sand and stain well anyways – and the color works in the space.

mid century modern cradenzaThe credenza is currently in our family room acting as a place to hold a lamp, decor and inside board games and puzzles. This one is also in pretty good condition. It is on my list to do something with it some day – no rush on this one though. I’m thinking about painting it somehow because it also has a laminate piece that won’t sand or stain well.

mid century modern dressermid century modern tall dresserThe dressers and the bed frame is in our spare bedroom downstairs. They are neatly positioned, but the room right now is just a dumping ground for excess stuff. Someday we’ll get to it.The kitchen table and chairs need a new home. We got them before we even knew what house we are getting, but we just don’t have a good space for them in this house. I’m still deciding what I want to do with them – they may very well end up craigslist. They are chilling in our basement until then.

Now onto the nightstands. Those found a home in our bedroom because we were previously just using Ikea Lack tables and those aren’t the greatest things in the world. These two nightstands didn’t match, but that is what also makes them more unique. However, they were pretty badly damaged with water stains and chipped pieces. They also were a much lighter color than our dressers in the same space. So I decided I’d try refinishing them. You know because I’ve done it soo many times before. Ha.

So based on my extensive research (ha.. or pinterest), I picked up sandpaper, stain in the jacobean color, and some water-based polyurethane. After sanding for a few minutes thinking this was going to take an eternity, I remembered my dad had an orbital sander. Dad to the rescue! That helped speed things up a ton. However since this was my first time refinishing a nightstand, I learned the hard way how deep you actually have to sand it to get it to accept the stain evenly. Because of that mistake, after staining it, the stain was really sticky and I had to basically re-sand everything.

Once I finally had it sanded properly, I applied two coats of stain – wiping them off each time after about 20 minutes and waiting a day in between. Then after everything was good and dry, I applied three coats of poly, waiting a few days in between for everything to dry completely. I also then waited another 3 days before I put the nightstand back in our bedroom ready to be used.

It looks a million times better, there are no more water stains or marks and it now blends in better with our other furniture. I just finished the other nightstand the other day as well – it too looks a million times better and the process went much more smoothly thanks to my lesson learned.

Check out the before and afters below:

mid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and afterAnother fun thing, I found a bunch of random things hidden in the nightstands – they must have fallen out of the drawers at one point and got caught in between. Such cute little notes and memories. This one was a set of matches with a note from someone that said “Something to keep the home fires burning!” and the matches were from Roberts Restaurant, I believe an old historic restaurant in Milwaukee, that is no longer there.

roberts-milwaukee-photoI think it would make Miriam very happy knowing that I ended up with a bunch of her old furniture and I’m very thankful for the opportunity to have it!

The In-Between

Before anything gets better, it has to get worse… in theory. So here is what we were dealing with last week…

And here is what we’re dealing with now… (sorry for the poor iphone photos).

I’m super thankful for my dad and Drew who spent much of their Saturday painting these insanely large walls. Not to mention, they’ll be painting the largest wall once more, due to Home Depot giving us a gallon of paint that was way off color-wise. After three trips that day and them realizing their paint machine thing was broken, we got the correct color again. You’d think using the same formula numbers would get the same results… hence the word formula, but no sir.

Fun. Fun.

Project: Add Privacy to our Front Door

Yay! One project that is done in it’s entirety. It feels like so many projects in our house are unfinished, so it feels really good to check one off the list for good! And it looks way better than what white blinds looked like.

This project spanned over the entire week, but put the finishing touches on this past weekend. On Tuesday, I began cutting out the million little shapes. Somehow when I was first calculating how many I’d need I got 43 – yea way off, there are actually XX on the door now. Each night I would cut more and more out until Saturday when I started applying them to the door.

I then kept cutting more and more until I had just enough, I even got Drew to cut out eight of them, go teamwork! The project overall was pretty easy, my hands just got tired from the scissors and lining them up on the door is a bit tricky, but I eventually realized this is a hand-made project and it’s not going to be perfect and it adds some character not being perfect. Though from a-ways back you can’t even tell, then it looks perfect! Only when you are up close examining it do you see some spaces a bit wider than others.

The best part of this project, it only cost me the amount of a roll or contact paper ($3 ish) – and I have over half a roll left for some other project down the line! The project was inspired from this blog – and she’s got lots of tips and even a template to use (which I did).

Love how this adds a subtle pattern to the space (inside and out) plus its way more attractive than blinds and adds privacy, which is needed for that door! Yay contact paper!

Progress: Office

Another weekend = another project checked off the list. However this weekends’ projects will be coming soon, this is what we did a few weekends ago + a little work last weekend.

You all know the story about the striped walls. Well, we finally finished painting the walls after doing all sorts of stuff to them including re-mudding, sanding and texturing. I also began the not-so-fun task of painting baseboards, window frames and trim in that room, which will eventually carry through-out the whole house.

This was my first time painting trim, and I decided to not listen to the guy at Home Depot and glad I didn’t. When I asked how to do this task, he said I should sand, prime and then paint. I decided for this little room as a test room, I’d just try the Behr Paint + Primer and see how it worked. I figured I’d need more than one coat, but I would also need to prime one coat, then paint one coat, so either way I figured it would equal out. For the baseboards, I did one thinner coat, then the next coat was a nice thick one and that has proven to work perfectly. I did try that on the door frames and windows, but I think the wood  is a different type and newer, so it has taken 3 coats, and is probably in need of one more final one to hide any bit of wood grain. I have yet to officially finish that room’s trim on the window and door, but the baseboard are done 🙂

I also hung these cork circles I got from Ikea – their main purpose is a hot pad for the counter, but I liked the shape of them and will use them as an inspiration board for when I work up there doing some freelance. I also started hanging some of the paper lanterns and flowers that tie in with the room, however since I’ve taken the photo, I’ve finished hanging them, and some have fallen. I obviously need to figure out a better way to hang them.

To do still….

  1. Paint walls dark charcoal Grey
  2. Hang cork board inspiration wall
  3. Paint trim white (almost done)
  4. Hang curtains
  5. Find rug
  6. Paint dresser yellow – like the matching desk
  7. Hang stuff on the walls

There is still a lot of organizing that needs to be done in this room, but at least it is in an ok state right now! More photos and progress to come!

Happy Home Challenge

A few weeks ago I came across this article on Apartment Therapy titled, 10 simple things that will make you happier at home. Not that I’m unhappy at our new home – but at that point in time when I read it, our home was a disaster just after moving – and some parts still are. So if I could do a few things to make myself less crazy, I figured it’s worth trying. Some of the ten things on this list are… make your bed everyday, as you leave a room make sure it’s left picked-up, embrace the daily chores such as doing the dishes and laundry, and doing small favors for your spouse and family daily.

So I created a challenge for myself to follow those rules daily….

1. Make your bed daily – I have got in a habit of doing this and it is amazing how great it feels to come home to a clean room and it literally only takes 2 minutes in the morning. However, I do skip weekends (unless we are having company) or days like today where Drew had off and was still sleeping when I left for work.

2. Picking up each room as you leave it – I’m trying hard on this one, but it doesn’t work if the other people you live with don’t follow the rule as well – so this is a work in progress. Doing this daily helps for when you have to clean the entire house, you don’t spend the first part of it putting away clutter.

3. Embrace Daily Chores – Dishes and Laundry. I have got the dishes part down. I usually load it up before bed, hit run and then empty it before I leave in the morning – unless days like today where I completely ran out of time. I also have discovered that if your dishwasher isn’t cleaning well, the to 1. Clean it (look it up on pinterest) and 2. Switch detergent. I recently tried the Mrs. Meyers stuff and it works miracles – my glasses that were so cloudy and gross are now crystal clear everytime – try it! The laundry part I have yet to get down… my goal would be to, put a load in the washer as soon as I get up and then go-thru a full cycle. Then I’d quickly load it into the dryer right before I leave. Then upon getting home at night, quickly fold AND put away the load. Sounds soo easy, huh?

4. Do small favors/acts of kindness for your spouse – I think this one is the most important – not only will you feel better about yourself, you’ll make someone else happy. If I ask Drew if I’m doing this, I’m sure he’ll say no, and that probably is correct. I’m sure there are small things I do that I do out of habit and doesn’t even notice because they are my normal things like…. make coffee for both of us in the morning, make dinner, and go grocery shopping. I’d like to go above and beyond those things I already do though – like I did on Saturday, got him a drink from Starbucks on my way home.

So you could say these are my new years goals… but I’m just starting them early this year!

The Perfect Gray Paint

Unfortunately, the perfect gray paint does not exist…however the right gray does – but it will take you about 10 paint samples in order to find it though, unless you are lucky. Sorry to burst your bubble.

So my search for the right gray for our living room is hopefully over (I just have to compare it to our curtain sample before purchasing). We moved in a little over a month ago, and at the time I slapped a sample on the wall that I thought would be perfect. However as time went on I kept seeing purple (and I am not a purple fan). So that gray (SW Pewter Cast) was out.

Next, I searched on pinterest for grey rooms I liked that provided their paint choice, so I tried Martha Stewarts Flagstone Grey. It was similar in color, however had more browns in it versus a purple undertone. I also tried Benjamin Moore Rockport Gray after I had seen it in Young House Love’s room. Also, once we got the massive Ikea Karlstad sectional in the Sivik dark grey in there we realized we should go lighter on the walls to provide contrast.

Then I pinterest searched some more, got some sample and kept getting them all wrong… too brown or too purple. I honestly thought it would just be swatches of gray on my wall forever. I finally took a look at all my swatches again and came back to one I had picked up a long time ago. Its a lighter gray with a bit of brown too it, but a blue/green undertone as well – it also worked well with the color of the couch and the mustard yellow in our throw pillows.

I got a sample and was so excited to finally find the right grey. I painted it on the walls and it was soo blue and I was sad. Then the lightbulb came on…I realized it was most likely the yellow walls surrounding the swatch and peeking out behind it that was causing this illusion. There is a color theory I learned back in my graphics color class, that colors look different when they are next to other colors. So then, I tried painting in on the white stairway wall that the sellers never painted. It was then perfect…. If only I had realized that before.

So here is the gray we are going with. Sherwin Williams Mindful Gray – however we’ll get it in Behrs Paint + Primer because we’ve had so much success so far with that stuff. Covers in one coat no joke and I know I don’t want to be painting this room’s massive walls more than once!

mindful grayAlso, part of the process included taking a photo of the swatches and painting the wall in photoshop. Here was my quick attempt to visualize it. Though…. I still think it’s not quite right in the photo – it’s much brighter and lighter.

Here is our process of slapping samples on the walls… can’t wait to get rid of all the patchwork!

Update: I just had a genius thought. So on the Sherwin Williams screenshot above of the paint color I picked out, there lists a hexadecimal color value – something you can input into Photoshop. When I inserted the Mindful Gray value number, it gave me this lovely color:

grey with yellow undertone

Can you see that yellow undertone?! LOVE – because that is the other main color I’m looking to use. Soo my advice to you… When you find a grey you like, plug the hexadecimal value into photoshop and you’ll see the underlying color that will most likely show up on your wall depending on lights. If its a purple… run for the hills, unless that is your thing.