Goals for 2013

The first of every year is a good time to reflect on what’s working for you and what’s not… what you had hoped to do in the past 365 days and what you forgotten about. I’m not one for making resolutions, but instead setting some realistic goals. So before I crank out the list for this year, let’s see how we came out in 2012…

TOGETHER GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Pay off Vanessa’s School Loansliterally finished this on the 31st
2. Take a vacationcruise!
3. Save up for a down payment on a house! – check and we bought one, so we should get bonus points
4. Get better at doing our laundry and keeping our house cleanso so on this, could use improvement still
5. Go rock climbing together – fail 🙁
6. Start to pay off Drew’s loans – Luckily we don’t have to start paying these until 1/8/13

DREW’S GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Graduate MSOE
2. Start at Milwaukee Tool
3. RelaxTook the past 11 days off, I’d say he’s relaxed

VANESSA’S GOALS FOR 2012:
1. Read a book in entiretyHunger Games 1 & 2
2. Blog more to document our livesSee for yourself
3. Sew something
4. Do less freelance

Now for 2013
TOGETHER:
1. Save up 3-6 months salary for our emergency fund
2. Pay off 1/3 of Drew’s school loans
3. Invite people over more to hang out as couples
4. Get a laundry schedule together – and fold after washing, not 2 weeks later
5. Go on a mini-vacation somewhere close

DREW:
1. Start Grad school in the Fall
2. Go to China for work
3. Hang out with my brother-in-laws more

VANESSA:
1. Enter a Minted design contest
2. Get my design etsy shop up and running
3. Get my car washed more
4. Finish updating my freelance website in hopes to do more this year
5.  Sew something
6. Draw/sketch more
7. Visit my sisters in MN and IL

HOUSE:
1. Finish painting trim white throughout house
2. Start and finish kitchen remodel
3. Update upstairs bathroom

Fingers crossed we can stick to these goals!

Christmas with the Family

I know I say this every holiday, but I seriously have been blessed with an awesome family. I absolutely love hanging out with them! This Christmas was no different.

To kick things off, we had Christmas with Drew’s Mom, sister Stephanie and brother Eric on Sunday the 23rd. We had kabobs on the grill and enjoyed opening presents.

On Christmas Eve, both Drew and I had off – we enjoyed relaxing in the morning and then headed to Life Church’s Christmas Eve service with Scott, Kathy and the kids. Following, everyone came to our house to open gifts and watch “A Christmas Story”.

Christmas day, Drew and I woke up early to open our gifts from each other. As usual we both got some clothes, Drew got a video game and I got a large leaning mirror. Then, we headed over to Drew’s dads house to celebrate with his family again. We had brunch and opened gifts. Following, we headed to my parents house to spend the remainder of the day with them and my extended family.

Why are there only a few holidays a year, I could go for one holiday a month where we get to get together with family. We finished off Christmas with Drew’s extended family today (Saturday) and did a fun gift exchange and played this strategy game called “The Resistance.”

We hope you had a great Christmas!

Christmas Chalkboard

In the age of pinterest, you don’t have an excuse to not try to decorate every nick and cranny with Christmas decor. And with having a chalkboard wall, I figured I’d at least try to do something festive related – especially since we are having people over at our home this Christmas.

I borrowed the idea of this chalkboard tree, but then the chalkboard lights were my own idea. I had been waiting for the perfect thing to add up to the top part of the wall and the post and totally joked to Drew that look at the lights I just hung in our kitchen.

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Christmas Traditions 2012

It’s beginning to look at lot like Christmas! Well kinda. Due to the fact that we’re tearing up each room on a regular basis to finish projects, Christmas hasn’t really hit us yet. I’ve literally decorated and re-fluffed the trees three separate times because we had to move them and then half the ornaments fall off. I seriously thought about not even bothering to decorate this year with all the chaos, but I’m glad we’re finally getting into the Christmas spirit.

A few weekends ago, I convinced Drew (aka Scrooge when it comes to Christmas decor) to hang Christmas lights outside. The conditions were, 1. I had to help, 2. Get free lights and clips from my parents, and 3. It had to be nice outside – a lot to ask for in December. But thanks to my parents and the random 55 degree day, his wishes came true and we hung them up on the front of our house. It makes me soo excited driving up to our house and seeing it all lite up – so pretty!

The weekend before, I took it upon myself to get the trees up (yes, three of them), add a little decor on the mantle, and a wreath on our door. PS have you seen Target’s Christmas home decor section – I basically wanted it all, but I had self-control and only got the two sweater Christmas tree cones… and a ceramic reindeer….and a snowball/jingle bell wreath… and 4 sweater stars to hang on our fireplace, sparkly pillows (I plan to use those year-round)…. oh and a “W” ornament to add to the tree. PS only available in stores.To finish out our two Christmas themed weekends, we made our traditional cookies spelling out “Merry Christmas 2012” – along with those hershey-kiss-pretzel-m&m things. See our Christmas baking day for 2010 and 2011. Yum! We tried out icing the cookies this year versus frosting them – we thought it would look nicer, however we should have practiced all year. Never the less, they taste the same! PS listening to Michael Buble’s Christmas album will really get you into the Christmas spirit. I always forget his voice. is. soo. good.

Christmas wouldn’t be complete without a cat-reindeer and a baby-niece-elf too. Merry Christmas! What Christmas traditions do you and your family have?

Christmas Cards 2012

Any day now our family and friends will find our Christmas card in their mail and will probably head on over here to check and see what we are up to on our blog and see all about our house! So hello! if you are here from the card. I’ll have some fun updates coming in the next few days, so check back!

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Even though it is not the end of the year, quite yet, I thought I’d do a quick year in review for you all! So 2012 was a great year overall, so many exciting things to look forward to and enjoy. We are so thankful for amazing family who make life fun and interest and new and old friends who we can laugh with until it hurts. We are so blessed and are thankful for each one of you.
2012 in Review
We had the joy of welcoming our first niece  – She is getting cuter by the day! See more about Reese’s first days
niece born photosniece reese

Drew graduated from MSOE and started full-time at Milwaukee Electric Tool as an engineer. See photos from Drew’s graduation
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Went on our first cruise to celebrate our 2nd Anniversary – we traveled to Miami, Key West and Cozumel. View all our cruise photos
carnival cruise miami key west cozumel 

We bought a House! So all the fun stuff that comes with it such as moving, decorating and having a mortgage. See more house photos and our plans to make it our own. Lots more daily tidbits on Vanessa’s instagram.
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We loved 2012, as it brought us lots of exciting things and new challenges… a bigger house to clean, both now working full time jobs with not so much free time, and a nice tan (or sunburn) which has definitely faded by now… all challenges that are nothing compared to what most are facing today. We are truly blessed and for one reason only, Jesus. There is simply no other way to explain why we are where we are today than that. Drew and I both can agree that we’re not perfect and we have our days, and if we relied on just ourselves, there is no way we’d be here. Simple as that. When you sit and look back, it’s a wonderful life we live and we’re so thankful we get to live it.

Merry Christmas!

Remembering Miriam

When we were first house hunting, a sweet old lady and friend had passed away – though it was her time, she was well over 90 years old, she was the most precious little lady and is very much missed by many. Here is a photo of her from our wedding in 2010.

wedding photo candid mariamShortly after she passed, my mom was contacted by her relatives that they had a bunch of her furniture they were selling. Knowing we’d need much more furniture to fill our future house, I decided it would be a great opportunity to remember her and to get some really great mid-century modern furniture. It was also a steal of a deal, only about $300ish for two dressers, a hutch, a credenza, two night stands, a headboard and bed frame, and dining room table with six chairs. Some of it was in great condition, some had seen better days.

mid century modern decorated hutchCurrently, the hutch is in our kitchen which is holding a lot of extra dishes and kitchen appliances and showcases some colorful pieces. This one is in pretty good shape, a few dings, but I could probably easily get them out without having to start from scratch. It also has a laminate piece that wouldn’t sand and stain well anyways – and the color works in the space.

mid century modern cradenzaThe credenza is currently in our family room acting as a place to hold a lamp, decor and inside board games and puzzles. This one is also in pretty good condition. It is on my list to do something with it some day – no rush on this one though. I’m thinking about painting it somehow because it also has a laminate piece that won’t sand or stain well.

mid century modern dressermid century modern tall dresserThe dressers and the bed frame is in our spare bedroom downstairs. They are neatly positioned, but the room right now is just a dumping ground for excess stuff. Someday we’ll get to it.The kitchen table and chairs need a new home. We got them before we even knew what house we are getting, but we just don’t have a good space for them in this house. I’m still deciding what I want to do with them – they may very well end up craigslist. They are chilling in our basement until then.

Now onto the nightstands. Those found a home in our bedroom because we were previously just using Ikea Lack tables and those aren’t the greatest things in the world. These two nightstands didn’t match, but that is what also makes them more unique. However, they were pretty badly damaged with water stains and chipped pieces. They also were a much lighter color than our dressers in the same space. So I decided I’d try refinishing them. You know because I’ve done it soo many times before. Ha.

So based on my extensive research (ha.. or pinterest), I picked up sandpaper, stain in the jacobean color, and some water-based polyurethane. After sanding for a few minutes thinking this was going to take an eternity, I remembered my dad had an orbital sander. Dad to the rescue! That helped speed things up a ton. However since this was my first time refinishing a nightstand, I learned the hard way how deep you actually have to sand it to get it to accept the stain evenly. Because of that mistake, after staining it, the stain was really sticky and I had to basically re-sand everything.

Once I finally had it sanded properly, I applied two coats of stain – wiping them off each time after about 20 minutes and waiting a day in between. Then after everything was good and dry, I applied three coats of poly, waiting a few days in between for everything to dry completely. I also then waited another 3 days before I put the nightstand back in our bedroom ready to be used.

It looks a million times better, there are no more water stains or marks and it now blends in better with our other furniture. I just finished the other nightstand the other day as well – it too looks a million times better and the process went much more smoothly thanks to my lesson learned.

Check out the before and afters below:

mid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and aftermid century modern night stand before and afterAnother fun thing, I found a bunch of random things hidden in the nightstands – they must have fallen out of the drawers at one point and got caught in between. Such cute little notes and memories. This one was a set of matches with a note from someone that said “Something to keep the home fires burning!” and the matches were from Roberts Restaurant, I believe an old historic restaurant in Milwaukee, that is no longer there.

roberts-milwaukee-photoI think it would make Miriam very happy knowing that I ended up with a bunch of her old furniture and I’m very thankful for the opportunity to have it!

The In-Between

Before anything gets better, it has to get worse… in theory. So here is what we were dealing with last week…

And here is what we’re dealing with now… (sorry for the poor iphone photos).

I’m super thankful for my dad and Drew who spent much of their Saturday painting these insanely large walls. Not to mention, they’ll be painting the largest wall once more, due to Home Depot giving us a gallon of paint that was way off color-wise. After three trips that day and them realizing their paint machine thing was broken, we got the correct color again. You’d think using the same formula numbers would get the same results… hence the word formula, but no sir.

Fun. Fun.

Project: Add Privacy to our Front Door

Yay! One project that is done in it’s entirety. It feels like so many projects in our house are unfinished, so it feels really good to check one off the list for good! And it looks way better than what white blinds looked like.

This project spanned over the entire week, but put the finishing touches on this past weekend. On Tuesday, I began cutting out the million little shapes. Somehow when I was first calculating how many I’d need I got 43 – yea way off, there are actually XX on the door now. Each night I would cut more and more out until Saturday when I started applying them to the door.

I then kept cutting more and more until I had just enough, I even got Drew to cut out eight of them, go teamwork! The project overall was pretty easy, my hands just got tired from the scissors and lining them up on the door is a bit tricky, but I eventually realized this is a hand-made project and it’s not going to be perfect and it adds some character not being perfect. Though from a-ways back you can’t even tell, then it looks perfect! Only when you are up close examining it do you see some spaces a bit wider than others.

The best part of this project, it only cost me the amount of a roll or contact paper ($3 ish) – and I have over half a roll left for some other project down the line! The project was inspired from this blog – and she’s got lots of tips and even a template to use (which I did).

Love how this adds a subtle pattern to the space (inside and out) plus its way more attractive than blinds and adds privacy, which is needed for that door! Yay contact paper!

Reese – 6 Months

How in the world is this little lady six months old already? She’s growing up so fast, but her littler personality is shining and is stinkin’ cute, she is almost always laughing or making us laugh.

Thanksgiving 2012

I absolutely LOVE my family and I love spending the holidays with them. We can completely be ourselves and we have to like each other no matter what. I’m so thankful that we all get along and have fun together and there is no drama. Drew and I don’t do drama. Seems like each year our family is growing as is the traditional photo grows – due to marriage and babies.

It also seems like they get crazier and crazier. For the first part of Thanksgiving, we headed on over to Drew’s aunt to do thanksgiving with them, then we headed over to my parents house to continue the holiday and thankful we could eat a little at both! If you don’t believe me that it’s crazy as all get out at our holidays, check out the photos 🙂